Her Identity Project: True Confidence and Inner Beauty for Christian Women
This is Her Identity Project—your no-fluff space to rise into the woman God made you to be: worthy, confident, and unshakably His.
In a world obsessed with filters and comparison, true beauty starts when you know your worth—because it’s written on your heart before it’s ever reflected in the mirror. Tune in for heart-to-heart stories, Scripture that hits different, and real talk on mindset, faith-fueled beauty, and inner healing. This is where "not enough" meets its match—God’s truth.
You’re here because He’s calling you deeper. Not to perfect, but to surrender. To trade striving for His peace, and doubt for His promises. Your makeup? Should be fun! Your value? Eternal.
We’re reclaiming identity—not by the world’s standards but WHOSE you are. (Ephesians 2:10) His masterpiece. His plan. A beauty so deep, it glows from your soul to your skin.
Press play. Let’s get free—and flawless in His sight.
Episodes are updated bi-weekly with occasional bonus episodes.
Her Identity Project: True Confidence and Inner Beauty for Christian Women
S3E9: How to go from Insecurity to Godly Confidence: Why You Don’t Need to “Measure Up” with Kristen Phillips
This episode is for Christian women and moms who’ve felt behind, “not enough,” or stuck in comparison—and anyone ready to stand secure in Christ. Join Kristen Phillips (M.S.Ed. Counselor & Christian Teen Life Coach) and Host, Ashley in a heartfelt and actionable episode that will make you feel like you're not alone when the doubts come creeping in. Kristen's teaches us how to use scripture as a tool for healing. It encompasses:
- Why “measuring up” isn’t a Kingdom metric
- How comparison quietly steals joy
- Head→heart tools: truth anchors, breath prayers, box breathing (4–4–4–4)
- Worship as a faith + brain-science bridge (letting truth land)
- Spot where “not enough” lives in your body; regulate your nervous system
- Discernment prompts to test next steps with God
- Ephesians 2:10 as a daily identity anchor: masterpiece, not a mess
- Note: Kristen now serves teen girls, but these tools serve every woman (and equip moms/mentors)
Podcast Swap 🎙️
Kristen joined me here, and I joined her show, Christ-Centered Coaching for Teen Girls—split into two parts on Apple Podcasts:
- Part 1: Identity in Christ—Learning to Love the Girl in the Mirror → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/19-identity-in-christ-learning-to-love-the-girl-in/id1823465124?i=1000723577491
- Part 2: Identity in Christ—Learning to Love the Girl in the Mirror → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-identity-in-christ-learning-to-love-the-girl-in/id1823465124?i=1000723705670
Connect with Kristen Phillips
- All links + FREEBIE (Anxiety Guide for Teens): https://linktr.ee/kristenphillips
- FREE virtual coaching for teen girls: email kristenphillipscoaching@gmail.com
- You’ll receive a short Google Form questionnaire; after it’s submitted, you’ll schedule the free 1:1 virtual session.
- Podcast: Christ-Centered Coaching for Teen Girls
- Instagram: @kristenphillipscoaching
- Facebook: Kristen Phillips Coaching
Connect with Ashley (host)
Overwhelmed by products or routine? Grab a free 15-minute Discovery Call—no pressure, just clarity on your next best step.
👉 https://calendly.com/hello-ashleyiduda
Coming up
- 🎉 Pop-Up Makeup Classes (dates soon)
- ✨ Saturday Glow sessions—bring a friend
- 🗓️ New episodes every other Friday, with occasional quick empowerment cha
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